I wanted to write this morning, since I got to work and didn't have to work. But I wanted to wait on the decision.
I am going to do something I rarely do, I am going to support Mr. Obama on this one. When you are in charge and you have a person who has control of your people and personal remarks came out, what choice do you have but not to fire?
Let me give you a personal example. Since my wonderful sister-in-law has instant access to this blog, she reacts within hours of a personal post. Now since I have said it is probably best in a lot of ways to move to California, she has bought a barber shop for her brother to cut in, bought him a phone so that she can call him to run around with her and find new "tiffani's" for him, but won't help pay for his test, help to keep the lights on, food or anything. She is so set from her criminal enterprise, she assures him he won't have to sell marijuana. Pretty tempting.
I am dealing with a health situation with my mom, so it wouldn't hurt to stay in dallas, however, there is a catch, the shop has to be in her name, she is going to be over with her kids and the rest of his family, and frankly, I don't want anything to do with these folk. We all have crossed lines that warrant not going over each other houses. at least from my perspective.
Instead of helping us as a couple, I have to fight with Latissa, Barbara, and Lashundra like I am fighting some random females but since Delmar is adopted, I guess even with these three he is fair game.
So now, all of the sudden Delmar goes with the you don't know how to act, I don't know if we can be together speech which is a prelude to the I can stay at my mama's so these foreign terrorists that I have helped obtained housing and such in your name can come and harm you, and now me and my family can avoid jail time forever speech.
I just looked at Delmar after he gave me why you so hard-headed which really means why do you think for yourself and see through this childish foreign games of my mama and sisters..........and realized as much as I love him, how can I follow him as the leader of my household if he can't follow me in regard to being the number one woman in his life. But it started b/c it never stopped with the talk of General Latissa, General Barabra, General Quinton, you get the picture. B/c these folk never visted him in jail, never took a case for him, never called him in california, latissa had the nerve to tell folk Delmar ran off with some broad, b/c she can't use my name and name me at the same time, he still listens to them. He still runs off at the moment they show him some attention, get him some cool clothes from goodwill, new phone, buy a new house so he can stay in the backroom or the garage whatever...............
I listened to the great american panel last night on hannity and the frair, I believe said where there is no trust, there is fear. I believe that. I can't trust Delmar because of his assocation with a mother who just will not quit and I fear the consequences of relying on him. I can't rely on him to be there how and when I need him because as the supposed to be female leader of his life, I am constantly cut down by these fairweather mother, sister, homegirl, marriage arranger, etc.....
The only way to quell the drama is I just shut up. Told him to take money when he ain't bought his own cigarettes and get the phone that his "big sister" gave him the money for, so he can date other women that she and her mother has arranged to get away from big bad Tiffani who won't let them use her identity nor her mom's anymore. So she can have her brother/man/flunkie on call when she needs. I realized that the only way this s*** is going to stop is just to end it. If Delmar wants or needs to live his life, raising every niece/nephew he got, save his mama and family from all of this identity theft, then that is his right. That doesn't necessarily mean that he and Latissa don't have other motives, which they do, all of this is Barbara Hearne's attempt to keep Delmar out of California and away from me, but in the end, it is his choices that will show his true intentions and it starts by whether Delmar is going to allow his sisters and moms to continue to sabatoge our personal agenda.
So long story short, Obama made the right call and John McCain don't you dare start with this right now, focus on climate control, Kagan, the offshore drilling, immigration, the power obama is trying to seize for the internet. AND WALK AWAY FROM THIS.
WRONG OR RIGHT, YOU CAN'T HAVE NOBODY ON YOUR TEAM, THAT UNDERSTAND THE PREMISE OF SHUT THE F*** UP WITH SOME THINGS IF ANY REPORTER IS AROUND.
WE GOT BP, WE GOT THE CONTAINER CAP OFF, WE GOT A PRESIDENT WHO IS BENT ON BREAKING THE SOUTH, WITH THESE BANS, WE GOT BLOGO SAYING RAHM WHO WILL RETIRE NEXT MONTH AND OBAMA MADE DEALS,
WE GOT OTHER S*** TO WORRY ABOUT.
IF OBAMA'S LEADERSHIP IS THAT BAD OR NOT LEGITIMATED, HAVING A NEAR COUP THROUGH MILITARY CHANGES IS NOT THE WAY.
THIS IS THE MILITARY, NOT A DAMN DEMOCRACY, THE SYSTEM SURVIVES ON ORDER, NOW IF OBAMA COULD GRASP THAT CONCEPT ON AN OVERAL LEVEL, WE WOULD BE OKAY, BUT WE HAVE TO WORK WITH WHAT WE GOT.
It is what it is.....................Now the military has to be the military and support whomever Mr. Obama appoints, it sucks, but this is how this works. If you can't have the support of the people in your circle, then you need to give them room to either leave or get their act together. Obama needed to fire McCrystal, Delmar the decision to leave him alone is totally on him and his family, I don't want nothing to do with them, but simply say hi and bye and if that cannot happen, then I have to leave. I can't tolerate disrespect from a totally disrespectful mother and sister team.