Wednesday, March 23, 2011

The Book of Truths starting with the letter R (Chapter 6)

Hello America,

Sorry for the late post, waited for a job, that didn't come through so.  Oh, I apologize for cursing yesterday, I honestly didn't know I did it.  And I read over it,  so why I need an editor.  So my bad, it wasn't intentional, I just got caught up so much in the moment, I probably was just making sure I meant what i said instead of how I said it, my bad.

It is hot, at least to me in Texas.  But I know my illness has a lot to do with it. So I am still feeling very weak today, bear with me......bear with me.  I thought about what r's we are going to discuss today, I chose reciprocity and relationships......

No stories, today, we are going to use last's night episode of the Game, the words of senator Joe Biden to work with today.

On last night's show of the Game, to me it seemed that the flowing theme of the show was about relationships what renews them, specifically.  The main character of Malik Wright is at a crossroads in his life...........He has crossed the paths of his personal life and his career with some pretty impactful consequences........His relationship with his new love has come to an abrupt end and leaves him leaning on the relationship he has known the longest his mother..........Malik has made choices that sacrificed the team for his benefit, now the team may issue some reciprocity for that on the season finale which is next Tuesday.  please consult http://www.bet.com/ for showtimes and show information.

Relationships and reciprocity.........

The other main couple of the show, the characters of Derwin and Melanie Davis, relationship has hit a different point. Derwin has learned through Malik's action the sanctity of wives..........Now, I am not saying the cheating wife that served as Malik's girlfriend was justified. not condoning that at all.  What I am saying is that Derwin has learned to respect the relationship with his wife........He is learning to understanding it.  He is learning that for her good or for her bad, that is the corny, goofy, plain jane in the end day Melanie that loves him so much that she wants his child for the right reasons........

B/c of the efforts Derwin chose to pursue outside of his marriage and relationship to Melanie with other women, outside children, he is approaching the commitment to make a baby with melanie with reciprocity in the sense he is approaching the concept of making a baby differently than getting someone pregnant.  He is establishing a bond, a relationship with his wife that from the moment of conception will affect that child...............

Relationships and reciprocity.....

Visual media is the most powerful tool out there for social indoctrination.........Not that I want to infuse my thoughts on you..........not in totality..........just a little sometimes on what I feel is important, just playing but it is.

It is time for black men and women to be viewed in a positive yet realistic role models.......simply because the plethora of shows highlighting black men and women in a negative yet unrealistic model is prolific......

Black American affects culture, yes...........both kinds as we discussed yesterday.  Hey look, you gotta keep it honest.  It is what affects black america especially the demographic BELOW 50 THAT IS PARAMOUNT TO THIS DISCUSSION.

Everybody can't or ain't going to be Michelle and Barack.  Look at Melanie and Derwin, they got baby mama drama, my homegirl slept with my man drama but we still road dogs in Jaz( she needs to be back next season........). My point is that we can't expect couples that don't reflect the cultural and moral and social standards of our times, our realities.

That's what I am saying with Rep. West, Barbour, Romney, Huckabee.  We need some realism, we need the people to be able to connect and have it not end when election day is over.  We are dealing with Dwayne Wades and Gabrielle Unions, blended families, drama, but the LOVE, THE LOVE..........

THE LOVE THAT SERVES AS THE FOUNDATION OF THE RELATIONSHIP IS SOLID ENOUGH FOR THESE COUPLES.........despite their faults to make it, to endure not necessarily the test of time, but to last a long time.  And our black babies, our minority babies, our babies of all colors need to see plenty of that on every channel from telemundo, to NBC, to BET.

OUR CHILDREN LEARN HOW TO HANDLE RELATIONSHIPS THROUGH US.  THEY NEED TO SEE MARRIAGE AS NOT SOME FLY BY NIGHT SCAM, BUT A COMMITMENT, A JOB THAT IS NEVER DONE.

Will Smith........15 years ago or longer, he was just the same type of hip hop personality, we complain about now.  getting high, blowing money, having girls, being everything you think don't belong in a husband........Or Duane Martin or Tisha Campbell Martin....... or Dondre Whitfield and his wife Sali Richardson Whitfield.......I can't say I know them personally to say it is a perfect marriage, or so and so cheating or this and that.  BUT WHAT I CAN SAY FROM WHAT I SEE TOTALLY ON THE OUTSIDE.
IS A COMMITMENT, IS A RECOGNITION, IS A RESPECT OF THE LOVE THAT SERVES AS THE FOUNDATION OF THE RELATIONSHIP.Children need to say men and women stay together in a relationship.  Delmar and Tiffani are dysfunctional, no doubt at times.......but Delmar and Tiffani will be together until the rocker stops as well.


B/C IN THE END, IN ANY MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP THAT STANDS DECADES, LOVE IS THE ONLY THING THAT IS GOING TO GET YOU THROUGH. BECAUSE LOVE EMPOWERS RESPECT, WILL, DRIVE AND DETERMINATION.

IT SERVES AS THE CATALYST FOR RECIPROCITY IN THE RELATIONSHIP.



Children need to start doing what we say, and not concern themselves with what we do....Get some order back in their lives.  So thank you, writers of the game for showing why wives and girlfriends can't be friends.......not like that.  Thank you for showing why men are going to start back protecting their wives not because the wife is always worthy, but because it is a reflection of him.  Thank you for showing women simply loving their men because they do.......  Thank you for showing the special moment of just laying down together as what marriage is about. 

THE COMMITMENT TO WALK THIS PATH WE CALL LIFE TOGETHER THE BEST WE CAN......

These children need to know that, we gotta to start putting some sense back into these children.  All this chaos, and confusion is killing these children's spirits......

I am starting to get it, Gov. Palin with the tv and entertainment thing...............I am.

Joe Biden said in 2007, he would impeach Bush for the same thing that Obama is doing right now with Libya..........

WHAT IS THE NATURE OF HIS RELATIONSHIP TO HIS WORDS AND VALUES TO THAT OF HIS BOSS?

WHAT RECIPROCITY DOES HE HOLD TO THE PEOPLE HE SERVED IN DELAWARE AND THOSE HE REPRESENTS IN THIS NATION AS THEY HAVE GIVEN HIM, INDIRECTLY THEIR LIVES, THEIR HARD EARNED MONEY, AND FREEDOMS THROUGH HIS INVOLVEMENT IN A SYSTEM THAT RUNS OUR LIVES...........

What is Biden going to do as Obama clearly, CLEARLY VIOLATED THE WAR POWERS ACT OF 1973......?

What is the nature of the relationship between Biden and Obama?  What is Biden's relationship to adhering to the law versus helping a friend, a colleague, a boss?

Donald Trump asks directly for Barack's record..........He is a businessman.  He is not limited to the constraints of robert's rule of order in his meetings.  It is donald's rule of order in his meetings.  The nature of his relationship of most of the people he deals with is business in nature.  His communication reflects that........

If you believe in something stand up for it.  I don't think Donald Trump would make the best presidential candidate.....BUT BUT I APPRECIATE HIM AS A MAN THAT LOVES THIS COUNTRY, AS A MAN THAT STANDS ON HIS WORD AND HIS BACKBONE FOR DEMANDING THE TRUTH.

Donald Trump is a marketing genius.....How many seasons has apprentice had?  He knows that the people are frustrated with birthers and he knows most reasonable people just want the long form to be revealed to eliminate the drama........

Barack can't afford this summer and the rest of election season to answer the birther question.  But it depends on the nature of OUR RELATIONSHIP TO THE RULES AND REGULATIONS OF OUR COUNTRY AND THE RECIPROCITY ESTABLISHED BY REPRESENTING LEGAL AMERICAN CITIZENS that give their lives, their money, their freedoms to this country.

Relationships.........relationships.....

Glenn Beck, if you want a television channel...........BROTHER GIVE ME A MICROPHONE! just playing, but seriously........if you and fox relationship is changing, then learn from the book of john boehner and let it go.  so be it.  Leave.  You can't co-exist with the stuff you talk about with Bill O'Riley who has to defend Obama about every 3 weeks to keep the pledge of "fair and balanced" in the no-spin factor.......

We need to ask ourselves what relationship do we have to words like patriots, citizens because situations are coming where those must be answered.  We must examine the relationship we have with words like congressional approval and impeachment because we need to contact VP Biden and others and let them know how we feel about this....

That's all today folks.  I am tired and I have to give a personal note.

I could say a lot, but please some of you all don't delude yourself that blaming everything on mother dearest will work......If you are grown and an adult, some of you all are going to rudely find out that you will be held responsible.......Fair is fair.  Mother dearest could have done everything but start the car up, but the moment you decided to get in the car with her, you established a direct relationship between you and the crimes.......if you will.

I have ten minutes. There is an attempt to employ me possibly........possibly at Lew Sterrett Detention Center....I am not a jailer.  I wore the white suit.  I was an inmate.  I am not going to walk someone's else version of my life.

i have been waiting on this job all day.  I don't know if it as the jail just had to put disclosure out there.  I can't deal with inmates some classification yeah, but no interaction with inmates......That thought scares me ;)

NOTHING IS GOING TO HAPPEN BETWEEN TODAY AND TOMORROW TO PRECLUDE ME FROM WORKING. And I am sorry that the consequences of me having steady employment will be so immediate to some, but so what?

I gotta eat.  I got school to pay for.  I got bills. 

Nothing personal............

If Dallas County through one of its venues has to give me a job, if the staffing agency I work for has work for me to do, then so be it.

I don't need to stay in Los Angeles to work there or finish school.  I can write, produce, or whatever here to. It is what it is.  But at this point I need to work and there is a reason why my staffing agency every time they got through the descriptions and I qualify and it is time for that to stop.

You all need to look at the relationships you established re me.  You stole my identity, you not paying me in any way for my identity and didn't make smart decisions with the money you got for it.  Now you broke and you need it, but reciprocity has intervened because I got needs to.

For one day, I am going to end it here, but tomorrow, if that staffing agency jerks me around again, to keep certain members of a certain family with employment..........Names and details going to fly around this site like roaches when the lights first come on.

I understand Texas you want to keep us and we want to stay, but Dallas county and this staffing agency........y'all gotta to understand the nature of the relationship we have........I am gaining leverage everyday and the power dynamics of our relationship is changing.

I am not going anywhere.  I am not going to be found dead on the streets anywhere late at night walking around none of that.  I am finishing school, still writing, and no I can't work on my feet like that.  That's why I do office work. 

That's it.  I'm tired, be back tomorrow, starting to get hot down here.....
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